Damsel Diaries 7 years ago 10 Times I Did It For The Gram {and what I learned}
I will be the first to admit that not 100% of what you see on my blog and Instagram are all real life moments. From time to time, there are in fact things that I will do simply for the photo. I thought I would share a few of those moments and what I’ve learned about how sometimes faking it until you make it can actually offer up a life lesson or two.
Starting with the feature image: Having no plan on getting completely soaked, I sat close to the water in hopes to have the water kiss my feet just perfectly enough to capture an inspirational image. A huge wave crashed over me and it actually ended up being hilarious. I used this candid moment of me being shocked versus the “perfect one.” Sometimes you really cannot control natures elements and if you are open to them, they will deliver you with a smile or two.
On the same day as the sunset soaked beach shot, I was trying to stock up on some evergreen content that I would be able to use throughout the year. I was forcing myself to try and look editorial and hot in this swimsuit and read somewhere that if you arch your back in swimsuit photos that it’s more flattering. I ended up throwing my neck out for a week to get this shot which ended up not even performing that well. Lesson learned? Keep it real.
I kept this vintage car for an extra day after I used it for a Shopbop project. I’m going to admit, I woke up this day feeling really cranky. I had just spent a half day shooting for Shopbop and the last thing I wanted to do was have my photo taken. But, I had seen this sign about a year earlier and even though I was pretty tired that morning, I sucked it up and headed out in effort to get some good photos. The day ended up taking me to a really fun beach I had never visited and I ended up with some really great pictures that did well. I may have “done it for the Instagram,” but I ended up having a solid weekend because of it.
On a trip to Florida with NetJets, the Polo Match we were supposed to attend was completely rained out. Stumped on how we could take blogging photos to cover the weekend {because it was raining} we decided to grab some bottles and all jump into the pool fully clothed. We ended up swimming around for about an hour and sharing some great laughs over how ridiculous it all was.
Freezing. That is all I have to say about the water that day in Positano. Everyone thought I was crazy, hell I thought I was crazy. But you only live once and I literally yelled out “I’m doing it for the gram,” before jumped off into the icy waters. Lesson learned? You really do only live once and I’ll never forget jumping off the boat that day.
Speaking of cold: I had a shoot scheduled with my friend James Nord on a day that welcomed a huge blizzard in NY. I am going to admit that I was not happy in this photo. I swore that the photos were going to be a waste because you couldn’t even see my outfit. But it turns out that people love the weather and real life moments. My readers ended up “liking” these photos because they captured a mood more than an outfit.
You may or may not have seen the incredible hike we did in Maui recently to “Chutes and Ladders.” I saw this place posted on my blogger gal pal Happily Grey’s Instagram and knew I had to check it out. Turns to find out that the free climb down the 60 foot rock cliff was incredibly challenging and life threatening. This was a once in a lifetime experience that I truly would have never done had my motivation not been to “do it for the gram.”
Sometimes, no matter how many onlookers there may be and people whispering “what is she doing” while you look like a complete idiot who is snapping photos, you can be in the right place at the right time and a bit of magic happens. When would I ever lean up against a palm tree like that? Never. Is it real? No. Did I do it for the gram? Yes. Is it one of my favorite photos to date? Absolutely.
The caption to this photo was “Did it for the gram” because I truly woke up that morning with the intent to hike up to the Hollywood sign just to take this photo. I hated the hike. It took all day. I was exhausted. I guess it was worth it because I snuck in a work out but the photo didn’t turn out as epic as I wanted it to.
Every one this summer is posting photos with pool toys. As cliche as they are, the lesson in doing a pool photo is that it gets you in the pool!
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